freelensing | september

i hadn’t planned to devote a post to just you.  but we were visiting your grandparents and throughout the day these moments kept coming up where your brother and sister went off somewhere with the grandparents leaving just you with daddy and i.

 you spend your every waking moment trying to catch up to them, be just like them.   i rarely see you without them.  it was nice having just you.  you felt it too.  at one point in the day as you, daddy, and i walked down to the river, you reached for our hands and said with a smile, “mama’s hand.  daddy’s hand.”

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i hope you will now head over to behold the beautiful freelensing work of my friend Cynthia Dawson.

the effect of her being

“But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive:

for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts;

and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been,

is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life,

and rest in unvisited tombs.”

– George Eliot, Middlemarch

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Heather Robinson

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Amanda Voelker

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a normal day

On October 18th, my daughter was born and I became the mother of three children. Hundreds of miles away, on the same day, another baby girl was born and another woman added the third child to her family. We were complete strangers at that time, but our love of photography and family brought us together. We started to have a conversation about motherhood with images, because we tell stories with our cameras. Since some tales are so similar, and some are not, we decided to collaborate and share a photo a week from a normal day as a mother to three.

“Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are. Let me learn from you, love you, bless you before you depart. Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow. Let me hold you while I may, for it may not always be so. One day I shall dig my nails into the earth, or bury my face in the pillow, or stretch myself taut, or raise my hands to the sky and want, more than all the world, your return.”         – Mary Jean Irion

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i have heard about kids who fall asleep in places other than beds.  these kids don’t require black out curtains, special blankets, or noise machines.  these type of kids always intrigue me.  probably because i know i will never have one.  however, there will always be that one september afternoon.  after days of refusing to nap anywhere let alone your bed, you surrendered.  and i had to take your picture because i needed proof of this beautiful anomaly.

photo by Heather Robinson     blog | Facebook

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Two years ago, they said they wanted to come live by us for the rest of their lives. This week, they did.

photo by Olivia Gatti     website Facebook

a normal day

On October 18th, my daughter was born and I became the mother of three children. Hundreds of miles away, on the same day, another baby girl was born and another woman added the third child to her family. We were complete strangers at that time, but our love of photography and family brought us together. We started to have a conversation about motherhood with images, because we tell stories with our cameras. Since some tales are so similar, and some are not, we decided to collaborate and share a photo a week from a normal day as a mother to three.

“Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are. Let me learn from you, love you, bless you before you depart. Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow. Let me hold you while I may, for it may not always be so. One day I shall dig my nails into the earth, or bury my face in the pillow, or stretch myself taut, or raise my hands to the sky and want, more than all the world, your return.”         – Mary Jean Irion

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you didn’t want her help.  she was causing you pain with each stroke.  but you let her brush your hair anyway.  you did it because you saw how happy it made her feel.  how important she felt.  there are so many things that i want you to learn.  empathy is at the top of the list.

photo by Heather Robinson     blog | Facebook

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Being a working-stay-at-home-mom often feels like one is never always there, or doing exactly what needs to be done when it needs to be done. Instead, things might overlap or get overlooked or be overdone. And with that comes this sense of guilt but sometimes ecstasy, that you are doing exactly what you want to be doing with your life and no one ever said that was going to be easy. But satisfying. Yes, I have been told that and both are right.

photo by Olivia Gatti     website Facebook

a normal day

On October 18th, my daughter was born and I became the mother of three children. Hundreds of miles away, on the same day, another baby girl was born and another woman added the third child to her family. We were complete strangers at that time, but our love of photography and family brought us together. We started to have a conversation about motherhood with images, because we tell stories with our cameras. Since some tales are so similar, and some are not, we decided to collaborate and share a photo a week from a normal day as a mother to three.

“Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are. Let me learn from you, love you, bless you before you depart. Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow. Let me hold you while I may, for it may not always be so. One day I shall dig my nails into the earth, or bury my face in the pillow, or stretch myself taut, or raise my hands to the sky and want, more than all the world, your return.”         – Mary Jean Irion

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the first one done.

photo by Heather Robinson     blog | Facebook

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Don’t cry baby girl. We all feel like this come September.

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