a normal day

On October 18th, my daughter was born and I became the mother of three children. Hundreds of miles away, on the same day, another baby girl was born and another woman added the third child to her family. We were complete strangers at that time, but our love of photography and family brought us together. We started to have a conversation about motherhood with images, because we tell stories with our cameras. Since some tales are so similar, and some are not, we decided to collaborate and share a photo a week from a normal day as a mother to three.

“Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are. Let me learn from you, love you, bless you before you depart. Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow. Let me hold you while I may, for it may not always be so. One day I shall dig my nails into the earth, or bury my face in the pillow, or stretch myself taut, or raise my hands to the sky and want, more than all the world, your return.”         – Mary Jean Irion

AND.HR.4.9.15copy
 you had already found most of the eggs at this point.  so i didn’t think you would mind humoring your mama for a moment.  it’s true i pulled you away from the real hunt in order to get a shot of this tree.  and i am not ashamed to admit that i stretched the truth just a tad in order to get you still for a moment.  there most certainly could have been an egg in that tree.

photo by Heather Robinson

blog | Facebook

 

and_4.9_cclsmresized

Yes, it’s April. Yes, we are still stuck inside. All of us. Almost all of the time. It isn’t the worst, we do get out some. But there’s no denying it, out there is still cold and gray and snowy and muddy. I love all four of you, very, very much. But please, Spring, please show up soon.

photo by Olivia Gatti of Click Click Love

website Facebook

a normal day

On October 18th, my daughter was born and I became the mother of three children. Hundreds of miles away, on the same day, another baby girl was born and another woman added the third child to her family. We were complete strangers at that time, but our love of photography and family brought us together. We started to have a conversation about motherhood with images, because we tell stories with our cameras. Since some tales are so similar, and some are not, we decided to collaborate and share a photo a week from a normal day as a mother to three.

“Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are. Let me learn from you, love you, bless you before you depart. Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow. Let me hold you while I may, for it may not always be so. One day I shall dig my nails into the earth, or bury my face in the pillow, or stretch myself taut, or raise my hands to the sky and want, more than all the world, your return.”         – Mary Jean Irion

AND.HR.4.2.15copy

if i had to venture a guess, i would say that you spend about 92% of your time doting over her.  you are always carrying her around, feeding her, playing with her, being a little mommy to her.  and then there is the 8% where you are delighting in pushing her buttons and hearing her scream.  i think you are rad big sister.

photo by Heather Robinson

blog | Facebook

and_4.2_cclsmresized

You were actually trying to get me to pay you to be in my photos. To which I replied, if you don’t want me to photograph you, I understand and I’ll stop, though it will be hard. Because most parents love to photograph their children, not just crazy ones like your mom. But I get it, if it is too much, I’ll stop and give you some space. You then said it was okay for me to take your picture, no charge. You don’t really mind. Silently I rejoiced, because I would be so sad to miss capturing images like this one, where I can still see your baby face hiding in your big girl face.

photo by Olivia Gatti of Click Click Love

website Facebook

a normal day

On October 18th, my daughter was born and I became the mother of three children. Hundreds of miles away, on the same day, another baby girl was born and another woman added the third child to her family. We were complete strangers at that time, but our love of photography and family brought us together. We started to have a conversation about motherhood with images, because we tell stories with our cameras. Since some tales are so similar, and some are not, we decided to collaborate and share a photo a week from a normal day as a mother to three.

“Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are. Let me learn from you, love you, bless you before you depart. Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow. Let me hold you while I may, for it may not always be so. One day I shall dig my nails into the earth, or bury my face in the pillow, or stretch myself taut, or raise my hands to the sky and want, more than all the world, your return.”         – Mary Jean Irion

AND.HR.3.26.15copy

so many big feelings swirling around your still little body. sometimes i wish i could make them go away. make you happy all the time. but that would rob you of the full experience. instead i welcome them, try to feel them with you, and then send them on their way.

photo by Heather Robinson

blog | Facebook

and_ccl_3.26smresized

I think a small part of me wanted to have one more baby, just so that we could take the elephant costume out for one last time.

photo by Olivia Gatti of Click Click Love

website Facebook

freelensing | march

this post is dedicated to a dear friend.  she is a beautiful human being.

she is a mother, a wife, a daughter, a sister, a friend, an artist.

she is a survivor.

 if i can raise my own daughters to become the kind of brave woman that she is then i will have achieved vast success as a mother.

 this collection of freelensed photos is my tribute to you Holly.

“Dear God,” she prayed, “let me be something every minute of every hour of my life.

Let me be gay; let me be sad.  Let me be cold; let me be warm.

Let me be hungry…have too much to eat.  Let me be ragged or well dressed.

Let me be sincere – be deceitful.  Let me be truthful; let me be a liar.  Let me be honorable and let me sin.

Only let me be something every blessed minute.

And when I sleep, let me dream all the time so that not one little piece of living is ever lost.”

– Betty Smith,  A Tree Grows in Brooklyn

IMG_3381 webcopy
IMG_3378 webcopy
IMG_3390 webcopy
IMG_3386 webcopy
Diptych 4
Diptych 5
IMG_3542 webcopy
IMG_3540 webcopy
IMG_3517 webcopy
Diptych 1
IMG_3546 webcopy
Diptych 3
IMG_3501 webcopy
IMG_3496 webcopy
Diptych 2
IMG_3451 webcopy
IMG_3443 webcopy
IMG_3440 webcopy
IMG_3456 webcopy

i hope you will continue to follow the circle to see what all of the ladies in this group have created this month.  up next is the magnificent work of

Cynthia Dawson Photography.